Use these as practical starting points, then follow the instructions supplied with the specific lubricant, toy or condom.
| What you are using |
Safest starting point |
Important check |
| Silicone toy |
Water-based |
Use silicone or hybrid only when the toy manufacturer confirms compatibility. |
| Latex or polyisoprene condom |
Water-based or silicone-based |
Avoid oil-based products because oils can weaken these condom materials. |
| Stroker or masturbator |
Manufacturer-approved water-based |
Materials vary, so follow the device maker's instructions. |
| Shower or water play |
Silicone-based |
Confirm toy compatibility and take care because surfaces can become slippery. |
| Anal play |
Thicker water-based or compatible silicone-based |
Use generously and reapply whenever friction increases. |